I've been reading this manga called Pastel for a while now. It's a very cute and wonderful manga about a kid called Mugi, and his pursuit of happiness with the girl of his dreams. It is quite a romantic series, and I'm currently up to volume 17, chapter 89. This particular chapter brings up an interesting point about happiness with another couple in the series.
Who is responsible for ones happiness? When a couple gets together, is one person really responsible for the happiness of the other person in a direct manner? Or, is it something that is, more indirect, i.e. your happiness is something that you generate for yourself by being with someone, or having someone, not what they do to make (or try to make) you happy?
That being said, I try to do things in my relationships to make the other person happy. But with this in mind, I guess if they are not happy having me with them, it really doesn't matter what I do right? Since if I don't do these things to make them happy, they wouldn't be happy anyway..... where as it would be better if they were happy with having me, and getting those additionals as a bonus LOL.....
It's I guess a rather romantic ideal. I don't know if I'm a romantic. Sometimes I think I am, other times, I don't..... I wonder how you can tell.....
Who is responsible for ones happiness? When a couple gets together, is one person really responsible for the happiness of the other person in a direct manner? Or, is it something that is, more indirect, i.e. your happiness is something that you generate for yourself by being with someone, or having someone, not what they do to make (or try to make) you happy?
That being said, I try to do things in my relationships to make the other person happy. But with this in mind, I guess if they are not happy having me with them, it really doesn't matter what I do right? Since if I don't do these things to make them happy, they wouldn't be happy anyway..... where as it would be better if they were happy with having me, and getting those additionals as a bonus LOL.....
It's I guess a rather romantic ideal. I don't know if I'm a romantic. Sometimes I think I am, other times, I don't..... I wonder how you can tell.....
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